The most important (actually, ESSENTIAL) belief you must have is the belief
that YOU are the PRIZE when dealing with hot girls. Believe that BEING WITH
YOU IS THE BEST CHOICE THAT A HOT GIRL CAN MAKE. When you adopt this
belief, all your other beliefs about dealing with HOT GIRLS fall into place
naturally.
Instead, you’re investigating whether she’s good enough to be with you.
TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR: Guy gets all nervous approaching, worrying if the HOT GIRL
will accept him. Guy tries to prove himself to her.
because she missed out on YOU. In fact, you feel sorry for her, in that she’ll
never get to experience being with you. TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR: It hurts his
self-worth, and he feels sorry for himself, because he’ll never have the
experience of being with that particular hot girl.
YOU are the prize. Not only is it her loss, but someone better than her will
come along shortly. TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR: Guy chases the hot girl, begs
her to come back, saying that he’ll never meet anyone like her again.
attention or affection with dinners and gifts. SHE should be the one buying
YOU gifts, and trying to win YOU over. TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR: Betrays his
insecurity by chasing after her, asking how she feels about him, trying to
win her affection with gifts, etc.
better than she is anyway—YOU are the prize! TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR:
Suffers from “One-itis”, builds up a huge fantasy in his mind about her, and
since he just HAS to get THIS particular girl, he’s lost all his power with her.
successful people, and good vibes. You stay invested in your hobbies and
enjoy your life. If a woman wants to be with you, she has to respect the life
you already have. It’s YOUR train, and she just gets to ride it. TYPICAL GUY
BEHAVIOR: Drops his friends to be with a woman, makes her the center of
his universe, drops his hobbies to spend time with her (or worse, makes
thinking about her his hobby).
with long-term. You expect the BEST mate possible because YOU are the
prize, and you can’t find the best if you only spend time with and get to
know one. You feel much more comfortable approaching women, because if
it doesn’t work you’re still dating other women. TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR:
Commits to one woman at a time, usually the first to “accept” him,
overlooks her glaring faults, “settles” until she dumps him and he wonders
“What did I see in her?”
better be treating you properly or she’s OUT. TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR: Lets
girl walk all over him and boss him around, because he thanks his lucky stars
that a girl as hot as her has “accepted” him—to him she’s the prize.
or loves you MORE. Although you’re lucky to be with her, she’s even luckier
to be with you. TYPICAL GUY BEHAVIOR: Guy falls head over heels and lets
her “own” him, tells her how lucky he is to be with her, or how he could
never live without her.
something about you, you see it as HER problem, not yours. TYPICAL GUY
BEHAVIOR: Guy gets all self-conscious about whatever it was she pointed
out, and either agrees with her or tries to justify himself to get back in her
favor.
See the difference? Most typical guy behaviors imply that the woman is the
prize. But when you switch things around and assume the role of the prize in
your thoughts, words, and actions, you behave much differently. Your behavior
will communicate to women that YOU are the prize that she has to win over,
without saying it outright.
Again, does it matter whether it’s true or not that you really ARE the prize?
NO! A fat, balding, ugly man who believes he’s God’s gift to women will have
more success with women than a fat, balding, ugly man who’s “realistic” and
thinks that no woman would be into him given his state. (Funny enough,
negative people often justify their negative attitude by claiming to be
“realistic”). I’ll say it one more time: Whether the belief is true or not means
nothing; IT’S HOW STRONGLY THAT BELIEF IS HELD THAT COUNTS. Perception is
everything!
