It's one thing to know how to get a woman's attention. Any guy can get dressed up, style his hair nicely, and make a woman notice him. But that's only one minor step of the game, that's far from the whole story. The thing that you have to accomplish is seducing a woman. That's what separates wussies from real men. Showing your interests, flirting shamelessly, using body language: these are all ingredients that make the thrill of the hunt so fun and seductive.
So let's look at the things that really matter when it comes to seducing women:
1. Confidence - that's the most crucial thing you have to gain in the game of seduction. A woman can tell just by instincts most of the time whether or not you are really a confident, congruent guy. That's right she can smell the shit 10000 miles away - it's in her DNA. So don't think too much about what to do, instead just relax and see what happens.
The most important advice: live the moment. Enjoy what happens, not just talking to the girl, but the whole fun of having her around you. That's when seduction happens...when you're not looking for it. Control your emotions and simply let them flow.
When women see you're calm, cool, collected and fun, that's precisely when they're turned on most!
2. Appearance - When you get ready to go out to meet her, make sure you look and smell your best. Believe me you don't have to be Brad Pitt to be successful with women. That's right for a woman looks is not that much of an issue as it is for us guys. Just make sure that your clothes look good and that you are well groomed and smell halfway decent. It will show you care and it will make them feel important.
3. Body language - once again women have a 6th sense when it comes to reading signs. They can read you like an open book. It doesn't mean you have to be paranoid about it, instead just impose your presence. It's really important to sit up straight and have your shoulders back. You want to convey confidence and control as much as you can. Make sure you always maintain eye contact and most importantly, smile.
4. Be 'Cocky and Funny': Throw in some sarcasm when talking to a woman. This works best with women with distinguished social value who are not used to this type of approach. It will set you apart. Be careful - there is a limit to all of this: overdo it and they will get offend. Sense of humor is one of the top ways to attract women. Make her laugh and half of the game is already won.
5. Make her feel sexual desire: Seduction is not about trying to make her like you, it's about being the guy that she cannot resist. So get to know the girl...tell her what you like about her. Then start talking sexually: make allusions, and sneak in comments about how good you are in bed. The first step towards having sex, is talking about it.
